How to harmonize your intimate life using FSC

Merzlyakova E. M., lecturer at the Planet of Regions Company, Abakan

My lectures are mainly aimed at making people not only healthy, but also happy. Health is the foundation of an active life, and sex is an important part of life. In consultations, I often hear from women that they don’t want sex. Everything seems to be fine, there’s a man nearby who doesn’t hit or drink and brings home money. But I don’t want intimacy with this person. Most women consider themselves guilty, sick, inferior, defective. Such self-image is very destructive. Then the psyche will destroy the body. Diseases will appear here and there, and there will be no talk of any happiness in the full sense of the word. All this prompted me to talk about such a sensitive topic as sex. And not about the technical part, but about the energy part.

The energy levels of men and women are different. It follows from this that actions, deeds, behavior, emotions will also be different. In men, the ascending flow dominates, that is, the 1st (root) chakra is most active. In women, the downward flow of energy dominates and the 6th chakra is the most active. Energy is designed in such a way that men and women, exchanging energy flows, balance each other. Balance is a process of both giving and receiving. For a man, the “giving” chakras are: 1, 3, 5. And for a woman, the giving chakras are 6, 4, 2. Energy manifests itself in emotions and actions. These are not just speculative streams of light, heat, etc.

1st chakra – courage

2nd chakra – tenderness

3rd chakra – generosity

4th chakra – kindness

5th chakra – truthfulness

6th chakra – calm

Thus, you can understand that men have courage, generosity and truthfulness, while women have calmness, kindness and tenderness. If we consider that in men the ascending flow of energy dominates, then courage is the main quality. From courage comes generosity, from generosity comes truthfulness.

For women, the downward flow works in such a way that the main female quality is calmness. Only from calmness is kindness born, from kindness is tenderness born. These qualities are manifested in speech, actions, goals, and methods of achieving goals. It is important to maintain balance!

In life, this energy exchange ideally looks like this: a man creates with his care, his control of everyone and everything who and what is next to his woman and family members, a space in which a woman is protected, provided for and trusts a man, that is, she receives from a man the energy of the 1st, 3rd and 5th chakras. The man, in turn, receives a calm, affectionate, gentle woman, that is, he receives from the woman the energy of the 6th, 4th and 2nd chakras.

Sex is an important part of life. The energy of pleasure is born on the 2nd chakra of a woman and is transmitted to a man during intercourse. From the 2nd chakra of a man, this energy rises to the 3rd chakra - the chakra of generosity and money! In order for a woman to have this energy on the 2nd chakra, she must receive energy on the 1st chakra, and this energy comes from a man in the form of care, protection, and provision of everything necessary. A man’s energy is born at the 3rd chakra, and it manifests itself in career growth, status, and money. Greed puts a block, and as a result, social status, work, business, and the respect of others collapse. And generosity towards a woman and the world increases the flow. The principle of operation is like that of a well: if water is not taken from it, the well becomes shallow and silted up; if it is taken, even more water comes in. Giving gifts is a wonderful way to increase the flow of energy!

Our psyche, the unconscious part of it, constantly carefully evaluates the actions, words and any movements of the partner and, assessing, puts on the shelves “dangerous” and “safe”. When a man pays for housing, buys food, clothes, takes care of the safety of all family members - he plays the role of “breadwinner and protector”, the woman’s psyche puts all this on the shelf “safely”. Then the energy of male actions fills the 1st chakra, rises to the 2nd chakra and transformation occurs - the energy of care turns into the energy of pleasure.

Sometimes a man behaves like a “son”. A woman controls everything herself, takes care of everything and everyone. And the man just brings the money and lies down on the sofa. The unconscious part of the psyche scans his behavior; there is no energy, the woman turns on the colossally energy-consuming “mommy” mode in relation to her husband. This means that when a man wants to fulfill his marital duty, the woman’s psyche will give her body a signal: “No! "son"! And here is the reluctance to have sex, when everything seems to be fine.

The “mommy” energy mode is dangerous for a woman if she does not have a child under 14 years of age. Energy comes from above for this mode. When the child turns 14 years old, this flow of support for the mother ends. In the case when a woman does not receive energy on 1 chakra from a man, she is forced to pump it up herself, and this leads to depletion of those chakras that are giving: 6 (calmness), 4 (kindness), 2 (tenderness). Accordingly, the balance in the couple is disrupted.

Another scenario is when a man does not try to stand on the platform of the head of the family, but immediately moves from his mother’s arms to his wife’s arms, trusting her with all the worries about the family. Instead of the behavior of a man, the female psyche recognizes the behavior of a “boy”. And when a “boy” wants sex, the psyche gives a signal to the female body: “no! "boy"! But she doesn’t drink, doesn’t hit... And the woman plunges into the abyss of self-criticism, which is fraught with the development of various ailments: gynecology, breasts 4 and 2 chakras, problems with blood pressure (6 chakra), with the lower back, veins, various types of neuralgia, cervical chondrosis, etc.

Men have their own problems: impotence, infertility (1st chakra), problems with the intestines, liver (3rd chakra), etc.

We have lost understanding of the importance of social roles. Unisex fashion, unisex behavior, work requires masculine qualities from women, a comfortable life relaxes men at home to the state of an “adult child.” But it is actions that are the energy exchange that creates balance and harmony. You can't fool the psyche. Everything will be seen, heard, analyzed and placed on its own shelf, somewhere deep in the unconscious. And, like a jack-in-the-box, it will pop up at the most seemingly inopportune moment. And this is the same mood of irritation, dissatisfaction, anxiety, resentment, and anger towards each other from nowhere. Women acting like men and men acting like women. Dramas, tragedies and a lot of pain, mental and physical.

It is extremely important for a man to see a woman calm and content. It is extremely important for a woman to see a man as brave and generous. This is what harmony is!

FSCs are devices that correct the energy component; using them, you can help yourself.

The following FSCs are most important for women: with a calming effect (No. 1, “LONGEVITY”); contributing to the “erasing” of traumatic memory (No. 24, “ANTI-CATACLYSM”); giving a positive emotional state (No. 15, “THE YOUNG APPLE”); providing energy protection (“WOMEN’S CHARM”, No. 14, No. 16, No. 20, No. 21); supporting a healthy state of feminine energy (No. 3, “LOVE”).

For men, the most important FSCs are: No. 4, “SUCCESS”, “BLACK MOUNTAIN” – 1 chakra; No. 5, “THE SPRING OF SHAMBALA”, No. 11, No. 19 – 3 chakra; giving peace - “HARMONY”; FSCs are important, contributing to the “erasing” of fears and traumatic memory - “ANTI-CATACLYSM”, No. 24; protective FSCs – No. 14, No. 16, No. 20, No. 21, “MALE AMUL.”

The “FORMULA OF LOVE” Correctors will also provide great assistance to both men and women. YIN", "FORMULA OF LOVE. YAN.”

Pay attention to the recommendations for the use of these Correctors. It is necessary not only to “recharge” with their help, but most importantly, to understand how we use energy, whether we are wasting it in vain, whether we can give it in the right form and whether we are able to receive it.

To do this, you need to understand your real self! I advise you to write down on a piece of paper all your diagnoses, places of unpleasant sensations, and from the books of Louise Hay, opposite each entry, write down those subconscious attitudes of the psyche that send a signal through the body about their existence. From the resulting picture you will be able to see the real you! Distribute these psychological attitudes in such a way as to understand at which chakras the imbalance occurs. And focus your attention on what you give. By understanding what comes from you, you can understand what comes back to you. I'm sure amazing discoveries await everyone.